Deer ~ Gentleness (contrary)

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Today we are joined by contrary Deer and Lynx, who warn that we may have become overly critical or forceful with ourselves or someone close to us. Deer reminds you that force and judgement never make any situation better. She tells me, "Stop being such a perfectionist! Everyone makes mistakes! Blame and judgement only make things worse - forgiveness and unconditional love bring healing and trust."
~ Lady Wolfdreams

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Deer in the contrary position indicates that you are courting your fear by fighting the internal demons of negative ideas. This is a clue to you that force is not always the best method. You may not be willing to love yourself enough to feel your fears and let them go. You may be projecting your fears on others. It may also be others whom you fear, reminding you of a time when you reacted to life in much the same manner. At any rate, love is the key. The only true balance to power is the love and compassion of Deer. Be willing to find things to love about yourself and others, and your demons will melt away. Your fears cannot exist in the same place that love and gentleness abide.

Remember, Fawn can teach you many lessons about unconditional love. In its true application, unconditional love means that no strings are attached. The gentleness of Fawn is the heart-space of Great Spirit which embodies His/Her love for us all.

~ From "Medicine Cards" by Jamie Sams & David Carson ~